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In these articles, I explore common questions and challenges faced by women healing from domestic abuse, family violence, and trauma. I hope they will provide you with valuable insights and support. If you feel affected by any of the issues discussed, please don't hesitate to reach out for a compassionate consultation.

After the Break-Up: Maya's Journey

Maya took a brave step when she walked into my office, still unsure if her "difficult relationship" could really be called abuse. Through therapy, she began to understand the lasting impact of emotional abuse and started the journey toward healing, reclaiming her voice, and rediscovering her self-worth.

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How to Identify Emotional and Psychological Abuse

Psychological abuse involves using tactics to control someone's thoughts. Abusers make the victim feel crazy, manipulate them, or threaten them. Emotional abuse controls a person's emotions and causes distress. Abusers belittle, blame, and humiliate their victims.

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Understanding Narcissists' Flying Monkeys: The Dark Side of Manipulation

If you've ever found yourself feeling confused by why certain people seem to defend or support someone who hurts you, this article will shed light on the concept of 'flying monkeys.'

These are people who, often unknowingly, help a narcissist in manipulating others. In this article, we’ll break down what flying monkeys are, how narcissists use them, and what you can do to protect yourself. This guide is perfect for those just beginning to understand narcissistic abuse and its effects.

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Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Leaving a Toxic Relationship

Recovering from a toxic relationship includes recognising the pain, removing negative influences from your life, and finding happiness on your own. Toxic relationships can damage your self-esteem and sense of self, so it's important to practice self-love to heal and find yourself again after a breakup.

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