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In these articles, I explore common questions and challenges faced by women healing from domestic abuse, family violence, and trauma. I hope they will provide you with valuable insights and support. If you feel affected by any of the issues discussed, please don't hesitate to reach out for a compassionate consultation.

Breaking the Chains: Understanding Coercive Control

Coercive control is a complicated problem that impacts many individuals. This article discusses the main tactics used by perpetrators of this kind of abuse, the impact on those experiencing it and how to seek help. 

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Understanding Narcissists' Flying Monkeys: The Dark Side of Manipulation

If you've ever found yourself feeling confused by why certain people seem to defend or support someone who hurts you, this article will shed light on the concept of 'flying monkeys.'

These are people who, often unknowingly, help a narcissist in manipulating others. In this article, we’ll break down what flying monkeys are, how narcissists use them, and what you can do to protect yourself. This guide is perfect for those just beginning to understand narcissistic abuse and its effects.

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Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Leaving a Toxic Relationship

Recovering from a toxic relationship includes recognising the pain, removing negative influences from your life, and finding happiness on your own. Toxic relationships can damage your self-esteem and sense of self, so it's important to practice self-love to heal and find yourself again after a breakup.

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The Biggest Lies We Tell Ourselves in Relationships

In relationships, it's easy to avoid hard truths by believing lies like "I can help them change" or "If I ignore it, it'll go away." These beliefs only hold us back from genuine, healthy connections. Being honest with ourselves about what we truly need and deserve can lead to more fulfilling, authentic relationships.

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When Your Partner Shuts Down: Exploring the Roots of Emotional Withdrawal and How to Heal

When a partner shuts down, they might communicate less, seem distant, or avoid deep conversations. This withdrawal often comes from feeling overwhelmed or anxious, not a lack of love. To handle it, give them space, listen empathetically, and focus on supportive communication while prioritizing your own well-being.

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